for the past few weeks, i've been trying to get better at self-love & being alone but today i keep seeing things that remind me that i'm single and very alone/lonesome. what should i do? i feel absolutely pathetic & worthless.
It is a very misguided idea that relationships make us fulfilled and happy. You are never alone, the universe is always with you. You are very valuable, you were put on this planet for a reason, everything you do is essential and perfect. Try meditation. You need to stop thinking and identifying yourself as alone. Just accept everything as it is and be happy. As soon as you change your thoughts about your life, your life will change. Your life is fully in your hands! I feel like you need love in your life. But this love does not have to come from other people. You need to love yourself. Look in the mirror and love yourself as you are. If you start to love yourself you will have all the love you need, and you will be able to give it as well. When you get to the frequency of love, you will attract love into your life.